Tuesday, March 31, 2015

Links You’ll Like


6 Things Adopted Kids Must Know by Age 6
6 Crucial Things Kids Must Know About Adoption By Age Six
@creatingafamily.org
Have you told your child these six crucial things she has to know about adoption? What resources were helpful?


What’s the Apostle Paul doing with the term ‘adoption’?
@togetherforadoption
Realize it or not, this is a very important question. Stop for a minute and think about how you would answer it…


Parents of Adoptees
@myownrace.wordpress.com
As an older adoptee, I understand now that keeping the Chinese identity alive in a child is important. I think if my family would have taken a more productive role in my education on culture, I would not face some of the challenges as I do now.


What to Expect When You’re Expecting an Adoption
@unexpected.org
Those of us waiting on adoptions have our own set of things to expect, some similar, some different.  With one pregnancy, one adoption, and one adoption on the way, here are some things I’ve learned to expect…


Green-Eyed Mom-Monster
@unexpected.org
When I couldn’t meet a need or presented her with a boundary that she didn’t like, she turned to the nearest woman in the room.  She’d walk from woman to woman until she found someone to do what she wanted.  Sometimes she’d wiggle out of my arms to run to a stranger who was smiling at her and beg to be picked up.  “Love me.  Accept me!  Look at how cute I am!” 




Wednesday, March 18, 2015

Hope and Healing for Adoptive Families

A place to gather with other adoptive families who 'get it?'

Concrete answers for some of the issues you're seeing in your adopted child concerning behavior, control, fear and sleep?

Tools to help your child on the road to healing?

A collective arm around your weary shoulders to tell you you're going to make it?

YES PLEASE!!

Many of us would love to attend one of the Empowered to Connect conferences but the cost of travel makes it really difficult.  So Show Hope and ETC are bringing the conference to you via live simulcast!

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These two-day conferences are designed to bring encouragement and practical helps to pre and post adoptive and foster parents, as well as to social workers, agency professionals and ministry leaders. Some of the top folks in adoption work will be presenters, including Dr. Karyn Purvis of the TCU Institute of Child Development. 

Several of our YWAM adoptive parents have attended an ETC conference and told us how very worthwhile it was… you can read about them here.

Churches all across the country are hosting this simulcast on Friday and Saturday, April 10 and 11.  Most are low cost (or no cost) to attend!  Check this map for a location near you and find registration information at each individual location site.  Then be sure to let us know if you're going!

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Tuesday, March 10, 2015

Delivering Gifts


We have absolutely wonderful case managers in Ethiopia for our Adoption Ministry 1:27 program.  I wish you could meet them all!

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These dedicated men and women visit with each family in our program twice monthly to check on their conditions, listen to concerns, assess needs and pray with them.  One of these visits takes place at the local church where the families come to pick up their monthly food staples and the other visit is in their home.

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When the CM hears about or notices a need that cannot be covered by the regular monthly support amount – things like beds, clothing or water filters – that need is included in the update that the sponsor receives.  Often the sponsor will be able to send a little extra to cover the need.  If they don’t, we check to see if there have been donations made through our YWAM Gift Catalog for that particular item. 

Recently our case manager in Bole Bulbula, Demiss, sent us some pictures of several women receiving some much-needed items either provided by their sponsors or through the Gift Catalog.  Their smiles tell the story!


Atsede and her children will no longer be sleeping on the ground
because her sponsor sent extra help!



Birhane’s sponsor provided her children with new clothes and shoes
to replace what is ragged and worn.



Worke has a blanket to keep herself and her daughter warm thanks to her sponsor.




Eskale gratefully accepted a new blanket via our YWAM Gift Catalog to cover
both mother and daughter at night.


We also notify sponsors when a medical need arises in hopes they can help defray the cost of getting treatment.  If it is an emergency, we use funds from our general account or Gift Catalog ‘Greatest Need’ fund.  We have also begun to assemble a team of willing givers – our ER Team – who will help us meet urgent needs.  Read more about that wonderful team of folks here!

Above and beyond the $50 monthly support for food staples and basic requirements, these extra needs are always going to exist and we trust God to provide through generous sponsors and Gift Catalog giving.  Right now, our reserves are low for beds and bedding, formula, audio Bibles, milk and extra food.    A donation towards ‘Greatest Need’ will help us meet a variety of urgent needs that arise.  Thanks for your partnership with us in serving these women, children and families!






Friday, March 6, 2015

Saturday, February 28, 2015

Good Reads


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Who doesn’t love a good book recommendation?  Here are a few from our staff, all having to do with serving the poor.

godoftheemptyhandedGod of the Empty Handed: Poverty, Power and the Kingdom of God
by Jayakumar Christian
Offers great insight into the plight of the poor from a NON-Western perspective with solutions on how we should approach those living in poverty. Jayakumar is from India and brings a unique view of the powerless poor and the kingdom of God. Fantastic book!





poorwillbegladThe Poor Will Be Glad: Joining the Revolution to Life the World Out of Poverty
by Peter Greer & Phil Smith
A compelling call to carry God’s mercy and compassion to the hurting people of the world and end the cycle of dependency the poor have come to expect. There is also a strong community development message. 



whenhelpinghurtsWhen Helping Hurts: How to Alleviate Suffering without Hurting the Poor
by Steve Corbett
Confronting some faulty assumptions Christians have about the causes of poverty and how they can do considerable harm.  Good principles for short-term mission programs to heed.




 
eyeswideopenServing With Eyes Wide Open: Doing Short Term Missions with Cultural Intelligence 
by David A. Livermore
Really great book to shape short-term missions to be sensitive and smart in their interactions with people of other cultures.




 
 
The-Great-Omission-Saint-Steve-9781576582169The Great Omission
by Steve Saint
Steve Saint, son of missionary martyr Nate Saint, shares dramatic stories from his experiences with the tribe who killed his father. This excellent book talks about bringing Christ to the unreached and leaving your culture at home. Steve is a great storyteller. This is a parallel book to Missions Dilemma which is the video series Adoption Ministry uses for mission team training. It highlights Steve’s experiences of what he did right and what he did wrong and what was learned from it.



beyondcharityBeyond Charity: The Call to Christian Community Development
by John Perkins
A powerful call to action to bring reconciliation and restoration to broken communities.







Sider-Rich-Christians-in-an-Age-of-HungerRich Christians in an Age of Hunger: Moving from Affluence to Generosity (Revised & Updated)
by Ronald J. Sider
Pertinent today as when it was written. This is not a judgmental book. It highlights the needs of the poor and gives ways individuals and churches can help. A refreshing read!




 
the_hole_in_our_gospelThe Hole in Our Gospel
by Richard Stearns
A great read! This book is about Richard Stearn’s personal journey and how he came to lead World Vision. It also gives insights into poverty worldwide and ways to help.




 
 
walkingwiththepoorWalking With the Poor: Principles and Practices of Transformational Development
by Bryant Myers
A good book for churches who are contemplating or are already partnering with churches and ministries abroad.



 

 
generous-justiceGenerous Justice: How God’s Grace Makes Us Justby Timothy Keller
Keller challenges many preconceived beliefs about doing justice and presents the Bible as a fundamental source for promoting justice and compassion for those in need.








Now, leave a comment with your own book recommendations on this topic!

Wednesday, February 25, 2015

Crisis

by Joy Casey

CRISIS: (from the Greek κρίσις - krisis; plural: "crises"; adjectival form: "critical") Any event that is, or is expected to lead to, an unstable and dangerous situation affecting an individual, group, community, or whole society.

Almost all definitions of crisis refer to a crucial point in an especially difficult or unstable situation that requires change or forces a turning point.

Orphan Crisis

I have been hearing about the worldwide orphan crisis for years, but I have not seen much change. Are we as world citizens becoming numb and desensitized by living in crisis mode for so long? The statistics only increase with each census:

· 140 million children orphaned worldwide
· 18 million of those children have lost both parents
· 5 million orphans just in Ethiopia

I see individuals and groups of individuals tackling the problem here and there, but I don’t see the international community as a whole doing anything substantially meaningful to bring about change.
 
The Faces of “Crisis”
Since I don’t rule the world, and, in fact, have no influence whatsoever in affecting policy change, I could throw my hands up in the air, put my head in the sand, and live a blissful, normal life… if only if it weren’t for those pesky little faces that stare at me when I close my eyes!
 
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Take *Seyoum, for instance. He is an 11-year-old boy who lives in an orphanage and whose mother and father are dead . He so badly wants a family to call his own and his paperwork for adoption is ready to go… but so far no family in Ethiopia or anywhere else in the world has wanted to adopt an older kid like him.


 
YWAM 6Little *Ebise toddles around and her big eyes and solemn face melt my heart and when I pick her up she is like a feather. She is so beautiful and perfect. Her mother’s pregnancy was the result of rape and she relinquished Ebise at birth, but now the government doesn’t want to process relinquished children and so she sits in an orphanage with a dozen other toddlers, all adoptable, but none with paperwork because of politics.

 
sweet girlI watch beautiful *Hana playing and laughing. She has been in the orphanage since she was 9 months old. There was a family who desperately wanted to adopt her, but then her mother moved to an Arab country to work and there was no way to contact her to finish Hana’s paperwork so… Hana will grow up in an institution. She has biological family in the town - a grandmother and uncle - but neither can take her. She is a resilient little girl and I hope the best for her future.
 
*Contact our office if you are interested in adopting an older child. These pictures are not actual photos of the children named.
 
What can you and I do?
 
  • Provide care for children being raised in an orphanage
DSCF0276 (2)Because international adoptions have dramatically dropped, orphanages struggle to provide the basic necessities for children. As we all know, babies do a lot of eating and growing, and in order for their brains and bones to develop optimally they need formula. You can donate formula through our gift catalog… and we thank you very much! We also need partners to help with the monthly budget of an orphanage so the older kiddos can eat and go to school. Orphanage general support can also be supported via our gift catalog, or you can become a premier monthly partner.
Contact Joy (joy@adoptionministry.net ) if you are eager to help in this way.
 
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Adoption Ministry is caring for orphans in Ethiopia and advocating permanency for each child. We put on adoption seminars in Ethiopian churches to instill the vision for stable middle-class families to adopt the orphans in their community. We are having success! So far, 6 children have been adopted and 4 more are pending. This is a trend we want to see grow. Each seminar costs about $2,000, and donations make them possible. As the government will allow, we also facilitate adoptions to families in the U.S. Currently, there are several older children who are paper ready and need families.
 
  • Make sure a child does not become an orphan
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Adoption Ministry 1:27 is designed to stabilize at-risk families so the children do not become an orphan statistic. You can help one family regain their strength by “adopting” them at $50 a month.



 
 
 
 
 
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There is nothing like seeing to emblazon in your heart that there really is an orphan crisis. It is a financial sacrifice to go and see, and we would hope you would go with the underlying impetus to come back to the U.S. with a plan as to how you or your church or business can become involved in a long-term solution.


 
 
  • Pray!
We have a dynamic prayer team comprised of people from all over the United States. This prayer thrust is headed by Tara Dunn and she would love to include you on the email list for specific prayer, primarily about situations in Ethiopia. Contact Tara: taradunn@gmail.com.
 
Yes! We can!
Children are orphaned for a wide range of reasons, including war, poverty, death and abandonment. They live halfway across the world and they live just down the street*. If these children formed one country, it would be the tenth largest country in the world – an entire nation of vulnerable children, left to fend for themselves.
 
You and I may not be able to move the hearts of governments, but we can help manage some crisis situations. I am encouraged and energized by Adoption Ministry’s work in Africa as well as our work with vulnerable birthmothers and children here in the U.S. We can’t help all 5 million children in Ethiopia, but we certainly can assist those God puts in our path. It is hard work, demanding, and immensely rewarding. I invite you to join with us and become part of the solution, a catalyst for change.
 
*The U.S. has the 4th largest orphan population in the world after Asia, Africa and Latin America. Our orphanage system is called Foster Care, and there are many children that need forever homes.


Sunday, February 22, 2015

Join Our ER Team!


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We are recruiting a team of caring folks who stand ready to help us meet the urgent needs of our AM 1:27 sponsored families - either by helping financially themselves or by rallying the support of friends and family.  This is our Emergency Response Team
 
What kinds of needs arise? 
Families in Ethiopia can face medical or housing emergencies or have needs related to man-made or natural disasters that they are simply unable to pay for… so the ER Team embraces these women and children by providing the essentials with their financial gifts.
 
How will the team be alerted? 

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Follow us on Twitter:  @YWAMEthiopia127

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Like us on Facebook:  Adoption Ministry of YWAM Ethiopia

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If you prefer you can give us your email or your cell phone number and we will text or email you.





Here is our first ER Team notification…

We just received word from our case manager in Dembidollo that a tragedy has hit Gezworke, a single mother of two girls.  She was cooking dinner in her home over a charcoal fire when something ignited and within minutes her entire house was burned to the ground.  It's not hard to understand how this could easily happen as her house is made of sticks and the roof is made of thatch (straw). 

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Gezworke and her girls are safe and sound but have lost everything but the clothes on their backs.  We want to help her rebuild her shelter, provide beds and bedding, cooking pots, clothes & shoes. 

Click here if you would like to help meet Gezworke's immediate needs...
Rent for a year is $300.
Rebuilding a house is ~$1000.
Cooking pots and washing pans are $50.
Three beds and bedding cost $450.
Food supplies for a month are $50.
New clothes (including school uniforms) and shoes cost $200.
It will take between $1050 and $1750 to get this little family back on their feet.



Please consider becoming a part of this vital support team!   Will you let us know you’re on board by sending us an email with the following info?
  • Your first and last name
  • The method you’ll use to receive alerts:
    * Twitter
    * Facebook
    * Email (include the email address you’ll use)
    * Text (include your cell #)
Send us an email telling us you want to join the ER Team!
support@ywamethiopia.com

We are so encouraged to know you stand ready to help!!

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